Reflective Commitments Within Roles Pisces Stellium Edition
(Originally posted Feb 26th 2025)
There are some commitments we make in life that are important enough to be both a noun and a verb. Two of the most significant are "Parent" and "Love."
To parent is more than a title, it is an action, a series of choices made daily. It is an act of nurturing, protecting, and guiding. This is the role that shapes the hearts, the minds, the futures of the children we raise up into the world.
To love is more than a feeling it is an active choice we make daily, it's devotion, a conscious act of seeing, honoring, and showing up for another, even when it is difficult.
Many of us carry wounds from times when "parent" was a role, but not an act of care, when "love" was spoken, but not lived. These absences create deep vulnerabilities, shaping how we trust, how we heal, and how we show up in relationships.
Tomorrow, a powerful Pisces stellium forms with the Moon, Sun, Saturn, Mercury, and Neptune along with the North Node. This is a rare and profound moment to step into the role of both wounded and healer, to allow ourselves to feel, release, and reclaim the sacred commitments in ways that honor our highest selves.
Pisces gives us the ability to see that healing is nonlinear. It is fluid, intuitive, and often requires us to dissolve old boundaries and surrender to the unknown. This stellium asks: Where have we carried the pain of abandoned commitments? Where have we mistaken avoidance for protection? How can we open ourselves to the possibility of new love, deeper compassion, and a softer way of being with ourselves? How can we reparent ourselves to honor our inner child?
Saturn’s presence in this stellium reminds us that healing is also discipline. A daily choice to show up, to be accountable, to be the loving discipline we may have lacked. Neptune, in contrast, dissolves the barriers we’ve built around our hearts, reminding us that surrender and faith are just as vital as structure and responsibility. He's inviting us to dream of a new way and trust that divine guidance is always flowing through us. Conjunct the north node, we're able to bring this dream into reality as it helps us redefine the direction we want to go.
This is a time to reparent yourself with kindness and nurture your inner child with the tenderness you once needed. To trust that the healing you do now is not just for you—it ripples outward, shaping generations to come.
We are now starting to reflect on the relationships we've allowed to continue despite the noun part of the commitment not continuing. We no longer have room for an ignorance is bliss self delusion with all the realizations and connected dots taking up so much space. If someone is saying "I love you" and hasn't shown it for months, it becomes fingernails on a chalkboard after this transit.
There is something profoundly powerful in choosing to become what we never received. To parent our own children, our inner child, and our community with the tenderness and consistency we once longed for. To love, not from a place of scarcity or fear, but from an overflowing well we’ve learned to fill for ourselves. Let this be the moment you reclaim these sacred commitments. To become the parent who moves with intention and loves with integrity. To be the lover who wakes up every day with the intention to make their partner's life easier and takes moments to truly appreciate every time they do that for us.
Honoring these commitments in adulthood is not just healing; it is a reclamation.
If you are choosing to embody these commitments despite the pain of their absence in your past, know this: YOU are the miracle. You are the proof that healing is real. And you are exactly the kind of love this world needs more of.
This Pisces stellium is inviting us to surrender and rebuild, to dream and commit, to soften and strengthen. As we move forward, may we take pride in the love we choose to embody. Because that love? That devotion? That healing?
That is the miracle. And it starts with you.
